Introduction
Philemon is the shortest of Paul's letters, only 25 verses, and the most personal. It contains no long doctrinal argument and no instructions for church order. Instead it shows the gospel at work in one delicate situation: a slave named Onesimus, separated from his master and perhaps guilty of wrongdoing, has become a believer and is now being sent back to face that master, Philemon, who is himself a Christian and a leader in his church.
Paul could have issued an order. Instead he writes a masterpiece of tact, warmth and persuasion, asking Philemon to receive Onesimus as a beloved brother and offering to pay whatever is owed. In a few lines the letter raises questions that the church has wrestled with ever since: forgiveness, the meaning of Christian brotherhood and the relationship between the gospel and the social structures of the world.
Who wrote Philemon and when?
Paul's own letter
The letter is from Paul, together with Timothy (1:1). Paul speaks in the first person, refers to his age and his chains, and writes part of it in his own hand (1:9, 19). Its authenticity is accepted by nearly all scholars, and it appears in the earliest known collections of Paul's letters in the second century.
Where was Paul imprisoned?
Paul was a prisoner when he wrote (1:1, 9-10, 13, 23). The traditional view is Rome, around AD 60-62, where Paul lived under guard and could receive visitors (Acts 28:16, 30-31); the presence of Luke and Mark fits that setting. Others propose Ephesus in the mid-50s: it was much closer to Colossae, which would make a runaway's journey and Paul's hope of visiting soon easier to explain (1:22). A third suggestion is Caesarea (Acts 24:27). The message of the letter does not depend on the answer.
Philemon and Colossians
The two letters belong together. Both name Timothy as co-sender, and both mention Onesimus, Archippus, Epaphras, Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke (Colossians 1:1; 4:9-17). Tychicus carried Colossians and traveled with Onesimus (Colossians 4:7-9), so the two letters probably arrived in Colossae together.
Literary style and structure
Philemon follows the form of an ancient personal letter, but its argument is carefully built. Paul first wins goodwill by praising Philemon's love (1:4-7), then makes his appeal (1:8-22) and closes with greetings (1:23-25). He holds back Onesimus's name until verse 10, after he has reminded Philemon of his love and of Paul's own situation as an old man and a prisoner.
Key words are repeated with purpose. Heart appears three times: Philemon refreshes the hearts of the saints (1:7), Onesimus is Paul's very heart (1:12), and Paul asks Philemon to refresh his heart (1:20). Love (1:5, 7, 9), fellowship or partnership (1:6, 17) and the language of brother (1:7, 16, 20) tie the letter together. Paul also plays on words: Onesimus means useful (1:11), and in 1:20 Paul uses a verb from the same root when he asks for some benefit from Philemon.
The letter is personal but not private. It is addressed also to Apphia, Archippus and the church in Philemon's house (1:2), so the whole congregation would hear Paul's request and witness Philemon's response.
The flow of the letter
- Greeting (1:1-3).
- Thanksgiving and prayer for Philemon (1:4-7).
- The appeal for Onesimus (1:8-16).
- Receive him as me; I will repay (1:17-22).
- Greetings and blessing (1:23-25).
Philemon in the story of the Bible
The Old Testament repeatedly reminds Israel that God redeemed them from slavery in Egypt and that they must treat servants with that memory in mind (Deuteronomy 15:12-15). The law even forbade Israel to hand back a slave who had escaped from a foreign master and taken refuge among them (Deuteronomy 23:15-16). Paul does send Onesimus back, but with a request that transforms the relationship he is returning to.
Paul's suggestion that Onesimus was perhaps separated for a while so that Philemon might have him back forever (1:15) recalls Joseph's words to his brothers: what they meant for evil, God meant for good (Genesis 50:20). In the New Testament, Philemon puts flesh on Paul's teaching that in Christ there is neither slave nor free (Galatians 3:28; Colossians 3:11), and it should be read alongside the instructions to slaves and masters in Colossians 3:22-4:1 and Ephesians 6:5-9, which remind masters that they too have a Master in heaven.
Philemon and Jesus Christ
Although the letter deals with a practical matter, Christ is present in every part of it. Paul is a prisoner of Christ Jesus (1:1, 9), Philemon's faith is directed to the Lord Jesus (1:5), every good thing believers have is in Christ (1:6), and Onesimus is now a brother in the Lord (1:16). The letter begins and ends with the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ (1:3, 25). The new relationship between master and slave rests entirely on their shared union with Christ.
Paul's role also mirrors the work of Christ. He stands between two estranged people as a mediator, asks that the guilty one be received as if he were Paul himself, and offers to take the debt on his own account (1:17-18). The verb Paul uses for charging a debt appears elsewhere in the New Testament only in Romans 5:13, where Paul speaks of sin being counted against people. Martin Luther wrote in the sixteenth century that we are all Christ's Onesimus: Christ pleads for us with the Father and takes our debt upon himself, so that we are received as he is received (compare 2 Corinthians 5:21).
Interpretive challenges
Was Onesimus a runaway?
The traditional view is that Onesimus ran away, perhaps taking money or property with him, and met Paul by chance or through other believers. Some scholars suggest instead that he deliberately sought Paul out as a friend of his master to plead on his behalf, a practice Roman legal writers discussed, or that Philemon had sent him to Paul and he had stayed longer than planned. The text says only that he was separated for a while and may have wronged or owed Philemon (1:15, 18).
Old man or ambassador?
In 1:9 Paul describes himself with a Greek word that normally means an old man. A very similar word means ambassador, and some think Paul meant that, as in Ephesians 6:20, where he calls himself an ambassador in chains. Either way, Paul is setting aside his authority and appealing from a position of weakness and affection.
What exactly was Paul asking for?
At the very least Paul asks Philemon to forgive Onesimus and receive him as a brother (1:16-17). His remark that he would have liked to keep Onesimus with him (1:13-14) and his confidence that Philemon would do even more than he said (1:21) suggest more: perhaps that Philemon send Onesimus back to serve with Paul, or that he set him free. Paul leaves the decision to Philemon's love.
Little-known facts
- Named last. Paul does not mention Onesimus by name until verse 10, after preparing Philemon's heart with praise and with the picture of Paul as an old man in chains.
- A double pun. Besides the play on useful and useless in 1:11, the verb Paul uses in 1:20 when he asks for some benefit from Philemon comes from the same root as the name Onesimus.
- A letter like Pliny's. The Roman writer Pliny the Younger wrote a letter to his friend Sabinianus asking him to forgive a freedman who had offended him. Comparing the two letters shows how Paul grounds his appeal not only in compassion but in the new brotherhood of the gospel.
- A city shaken. The Roman historian Tacitus records that Laodicea, Colossae's neighbor, was destroyed by an earthquake in AD 60 and rebuilt without help from Rome, a reminder of the region's turbulent history.
- Churches in homes. The church in Philemon's house (1:2) reflects the normal pattern of the first centuries. One of the oldest known buildings adapted for Christian worship, a house at Dura-Europos in Syria, dates from the third century.
How to study Philemon
Read it several times
The whole letter can be read in about five minutes. Read it once straight through, then again alongside Colossians 3:11, 3:22-4:1 and 4:7-17. Then read it three more times, imagining yourself first as Philemon, then as Onesimus and finally as a member of the church listening to it.
What to look for
- How Paul persuades: the order of his arguments, his tone and his repeated words.
- What the gospel changes in the relationship between Philemon and Onesimus.
- The costs for each person: Philemon's pride and loss, Onesimus's risk in returning, Paul's offer to pay.
- How Paul's intercession reflects the work of Christ.
Teaching it in a class or small group
Philemon works well in one or two sessions. In the first, retell the situation, read the letter aloud and discuss the questions it raises about forgiveness and restoring trust after wrongdoing. In the second, explore the relationship between the gospel and slavery honestly, including how believers later drew on these principles to oppose it. End by asking each person to think of one relationship that needs reconciliation, one person who needs a welcome and one person they could intercede for, as Paul did for Onesimus.