Goal: Warm up the table with memories of family meals.
Step by step
- Ask each man to tell the table in 1 minute about a breakfast he remembers from childhood.
- Rotate around the table, with a pass option. Have the host go first to set a light tone.
- Ask: what did that breakfast teach you about family? Allow 2 minutes of table talk.
- Read Psalm 133:1 and thank God for the men at the table.
Key verse: Psalm 133:1 — how good and pleasant it is when brothers live together in unity
Variation: With visitors, ask: what is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast today?
Goal: Show that God calls timid men to greater things.
Step by step
- Read Judges 6:11-16 aloud (4 minutes). Note that Gideon was threshing wheat in a winepress to hide.
- Give each table 3 questions on a card: Where was Gideon hiding? What did the angel call him? What did God promise?
- Each table has 6 minutes to answer and then share one answer.
- Ask: what is one small step of courage I can take this week? Write it on an index card.
Key verse: Judges 6:12 — the Lord is with you, mighty man of valor
Variation: Ask each man to choose one friend to remind him of his step.
Goal: Encourage men to strengthen each other.
Step by step
- Read 1 Samuel 23:15-18 aloud. Jonathan went to David and helped him find strength in God.
- Ask each man to write the name of someone he can encourage this week. Names only.
- Pair the men at the table and have each tell his partner one concrete way he will encourage that person, in 2 minutes.
- Pray for each other's names for 3 minutes.
Key verse: 1 Samuel 23:16 — Jonathan went to David and helped him find strength in God
Variation: Add a 60-second voicemail or text as a task for the week.
Goal: Illustrate teamwork by building together.
Step by step
- Read Nehemiah 2:17-18 and 3:1-3 for 3 minutes. Everyone built the part near their own house.
- Give each table a sheet of poster board and ask the men to draw a wall with 'stones' for each man's part: what each can contribute to the church.
- Each man writes his name and one contribution on his stone in 5 minutes.
- Post the walls around the room and read each aloud in turn.
Key verse: Nehemiah 2:17 — come, let us rebuild the wall of Jerusalem
Variation: For a bigger group, build a single wall on a long paper roll.
Goal: Plan the week with intention.
Step by step
- Hand out a card with a simple grid of the 7 days. Ask each man to write one priority per day: work, family, church, health.
- Pair up and share the top priority with a partner for 3 minutes each.
- Read Psalm 90:12 and ask: how will I use my days wisely?
- Set a phone alarm for Wednesday to check the card.
Key verse: Psalm 90:12 — teach us to number our days that we may gain a heart of wisdom
Variation: At a smaller table, plan the month instead.
Goal: Practice integrity in everyday promises.
Step by step
- Read Matthew 5:37 aloud. Ask the table: why is a simple yes or no enough?
- Hand out cards with 3 situations: promising to call back, accepting a task at church, giving a deadline at work. Discuss each in 2 minutes.
- Each man writes one promise he made that he needs to keep this week. Nothing is shared aloud.
- Close with a prayer for faithfulness.
Key verse: Matthew 5:37 — let your yes be yes and your no be no
Variation: Invite one man to share a time when someone kept his word and how it felt.
Goal: Link the father's legacy with the work of reopening what was good.
Step by step
- Read Genesis 26:15-22 in 4 minutes. Isaac reopened wells dug in his father's time.
- Ask each table: what 'wells' from our fathers or older men should we reopen? (Prayer, hospitality, serving.)
- Make a list of 3 on the board.
- Pray that the men will keep these wells open for the next generation.
Key verse: Genesis 26:18 — Isaac dug again the wells that had been dug in the days of his father Abraham
Variation: Ask a veteran of the church to share one well in 3 minutes.
Goal: Give each man a prayer partner for the week.
Step by step
- Pair the men by drawing numbers from a jar. Accept switches if someone prefers a friend.
- Each pair shares one prayer request for the week and writes the other's request on a card.
- Exchange phone numbers and agree to send one message by Wednesday.
- Read Hebrews 10:24 and pray for your partner out loud.
Key verse: Hebrews 10:24 — let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works
Variation: Rotate partners monthly.