Paul begins with a fulfilled condition: if they have been raised with Christ, they must seek the things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. They have died, and their life is hidden with Christ in God; when he appears, they also will appear with him in glory.
Therefore they must put to death what is earthly: sexual immorality, impurity, evil desire and covetousness, which is idolatry. They must also put away anger, malice, slander and obscene talk, and not lie to one another, since they have put off the old self and put on the new, which is being renewed after the image of its Creator. In that new humanity there is no Greek and Jew, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all.
As God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, they must put on compassion, kindness, humility, meekness and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving as the Lord forgave them. Above all, they must put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. Let the peace of Christ rule in their hearts, let the word of Christ dwell in them richly and let them sing with thankfulness. Whatever they do, in word or deed, they are to do in the name of the Lord Jesus.
Paul applies this to the household: wives submit to their husbands in the Lord, husbands love their wives and are not harsh, children obey their parents, fathers do not provoke their children, and slaves obey their masters with sincerity, working heartily as for the Lord, whom they serve.